Manners!

The most important aspect of all times, the most studied "object" and by all means the creator of what we have nowadays: manners!!... I would very much like to stop and check the significance of the word and then try to understand why manners are as important as religion is. It seems to me that ever since the man worked with his mind, manners became the perfect code to identify the origins of each and any one of us and, in the same time, the perfect solution to get out of trouble in a diplomatic way. To my mind manners not only became the high living standard but they actually can make the difference between an ignorant and an educated person (as in a person that studies all the time).

Unfortunately we raised up this idea too much and with that we decomposed the meaning and the effect. Now, manners come along with an enormous quantity of hypocricism and fake attitude to mislead a fact, a behavior and, nevertheless to hide the weak parts of the personality of a person. It is such a shame how the good things become little by little bad things, and how we have the power to change everything we want as we want it to be. Too bad we use all our forces to destroy what once was created to support the good, to create the elegant and come to a sense.

In schools teachers try to use an unshaped form of what's left from what it used to be. It's a mystery how people feel so strong the need to return to innocence in such an active and demanding century. I try myself to open this door once again. In my opinion living in a paradox cannot make you happy. In the same opinion I strongly believe that manners shouldn't appeal to our business life but to our social life, better saying sentimental life. Manners must make you who you are not help you build a business or get out of unwanted interactions. Words, talking, communication must impose manners to guide us to a better, nicer life, to make sure we respect us and all others around us. Show and teach all the kids or persons you think that they need this. Stop looking in a different direction when you see something disrespectful! Do something about it, don't just stand there trying to "exist less" in that place. Ask for manners and sex education in the same time, having the same importance. Building better us means a better way of having everything!

Do you still remember? "May I...?", "Please", "with all my appreciation...", "thank you", "can you show me/ give me/ tell me..."





Playful Personality Builder insists on manners using society games and lots of stories